I don’t understand the human brain or heart! Last night all of a sudden I had this incredibly painful feeling in my chest, like the weight of the world was pressing on it and a sadness came over. This was probably brought on because I lost my former wedding set. I know it shouldn’t matter, but it does. I started remembering wearing it, seeing it on my hand, remembering receiving it. It brought back all of the happy and sad memories. I was willing to stay and fight, you were willing to give up. The ring being lost just makes me feel like the memories are lost too.